[Turkkiz]

Ni men hao?

[Umit]

Aydin is nice city and it is a modern city. i dont think his family argue with him about you.

we Turkish people think that China is very big country and we dont think Chinese people are bad. And i dont think his family have prejudice about Chinese people.

[Turkkiz]

Really? But This time their family visit China, and we meet each other. There's big problem is we can not communicate with each other. They only speak Turkish, and I can't speak Turkish. What can I do ?

By the way, do you guys think my boyfriend is mean?
Any thoughts and recommendation?

[Umit]

Your BF will be translator for you. i dont think it will be problem.

[Turkkiz]

But when they are together, even I don't have chance to talk with them. I feel lonely. Of course he will be the translator, but I just feel distance between I and their family.

[Umit]

lol
but there is no any other way. and i think you should trust him in this.

[Turkkiz]

I hope so. Thanks Umit. I just feel to be engaged with Turkish guy is really difficult sometimes. They are really nice, but sometimes they don't want to tell you exactly what they think.

[Shannon]

If his parents are biased against you hon its not because you are chinese, it would be more likely because you are not a turkish muslim if its that at all!

I dont know what to say about your boyfriend being mean. I mean for Turkey i hubby earns very good monry, but i earn more in Ireland cos its a richer country. I always pay for my flight but the hubby always pays for everything when i get there, from buses to cigarettes to food, everything. And that adds uo to a lot in 3 weeks or more, more than the flight ticket. So its a fair deal! And i dont ask him to do it, he insists and wont let me pay!

[Turkkiz]

Hi Shannon, you are right. Maybe I think too much and really care our relationship. It's not good to talk about money between lovers.

I hope I and my bf visit Turkey next year together.

[toksoz]

Originally Posted by Turkkiz

Hi Shannon, you are right. Maybe I think too much and really care our relationship. It's not good to talk about money between lovers.

I hope I and my bf visit Turkey next year together.

Sometimes you need to talk about money! especially in SOME CASES. If it bothers you, you should DEFINATELY talk about this. I had a fella once who paid for everything, or so I thought, he was scaming cash from my Visa Card without my knowledge. Im still paying for it today and that was 5 yrs ago.

So girl, TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS, and be sensible, hope you work it out.